View Full Version : the say sorry thread

06 Jan 2011, 20:21
Who would you like to say sorry to? Ill start
id like to say im sorry to..
my dad because I've been so whiney and difficult
my friend jaime for not answering the phone when she calls
my brother for being so mean to him
my sister for makeing her worry
my best friend for.....(I said sorry to him earlier today)
my cat spazz for never being home
my ex-boyfriend for......
My friend jon for not visiting in so long
the many citizens of pf who I have insulted or made angry
That's all that comes to mind at the moment ill probabily remember more later. Ill be apologizing to most of these people soon. How about you?

06 Jan 2011, 20:30
I'd like to say sorry to the little old lady who own this home. She cleaned my upstairs bathroom for me. Because I live like a 14 year old girl when I am in it. So I hope the gift bag and the gift card to Red Lobster helps.

And I'm sorry.

06 Jan 2011, 20:39
I'm just sorry that things don't always go as planned.

To my family: Perseverance and will! We will survive!

To my friends (the rest of my CHOSEN family): Patience. Have patience with me! My stress is not your problem - I am not avoiding any of you!

06 Jan 2011, 20:43
I'm sorry, Betty, that I'm not there.

07 Jan 2011, 08:36
I'm sorry I can't help my best friend move next month.
and I'm sorry I wont reschedule the vacation preventing me from helping her.

10 Jan 2011, 05:47
I am sorry to my patients that I should/could have taken better care of, I really try.
I am sorry to my parents/grandparents for not calling as much as I should. I love you.
I am sorry to me for hating myself.

10 Jan 2011, 10:07
Dad, I am sorry that I wasn't there the night you passed away. It has been 10 years and I guess I will never forgive myself for that one.
C. (hubby) I am sorry that I am always so busy with work, friends, work,family, crisis with work/friendsfamily, etc. One day soon, we will be able to have more time together, so much that you will be sick of me!

11 Jan 2011, 18:15
To Matt.M
I'm sorry I was not there for you when you needed someone to talk to. I'm sorry I didn't know about your funeral until weeks later.
I'm sorry I didn't take the time to help you when you needed it. For thirty years I have held this in my heart. Sorry seems so little a thing to say.

13 Jan 2011, 12:54
I am sorry Dmitri, I didn't mean to hurt you. But don't let her hurt you either k?

23 Jan 2011, 19:06
I am sorry for those that I have hurt, intentional and unintentional
I am sorry for taking life for granted
I am sorry for my friends who i seem to loose touch oh-so-much
I am sorry for my family especially my parents who I did not listen to

25 Jan 2011, 13:11
Dad, I'm sorry I couldn't be the perfect daughter you wanted, I'm also sorry I sold one of your cars, it was rude

Tylluan Penry
01 Feb 2011, 12:25
Dear Aud, I am sorry I called you a cow but you shouldn't have eaten my shoe....

01 Feb 2011, 12:43
Im sorry forum for the swearing I have, am and will be doing

03 Feb 2011, 08:51
I'm sorry I couldn't make it in to work the last couple of days, I know how short-staffed we are right now

03 Feb 2011, 10:06
I'm sorry I talk so much. :( I wont talk your ear off next time, promise.

05 Feb 2011, 18:26
I'm sorry, guts, for agreeing to play that DS9 drinking game last night. Please forgive me in the form of normal gastrointestinal performance.

05 Feb 2011, 19:39
I am sorry to the people I used to be friends with because of pushing you away because of me trying to find religion. I am sorry Jeremy for all the stupid stuff I said to you.

Tylluan Penry
06 Feb 2011, 02:19
Dear Aud, again I find myself apologising for calling you a cow. But that was my best oven glove and I needed it.

Tylluan Penry
10 Feb 2011, 05:49
Dear Aud, once again I find myself apologising. It wasn't nice to call you a silly mare. But the wall is an essential part of my home, and you have made a hole in it.

10 Feb 2011, 07:41
Dear Self, I am sorry that I have made you feel stupid and ugly. I am working on it. I love you.

13 Feb 2011, 10:20
I'm just sorry... x

13 Mar 2011, 00:10
I'm sorry babe,

I miss you so much.

love me. X

15 Mar 2011, 17:06
B. I am sorry that I wasn't very nice to you today, I am having a shitty day and I should not have taken any of it out on you.
Tomorrow I shall put on my big girl panties, tell you I am sorry, and be your 'servant' for the day (within limits ;) )

Tylluan Penry
12 Apr 2011, 13:57
Dear Audrey... I'm sorry you had to go and eat another stone. I'm not trying to spoil your fun, honest. It's just that if the vet keeps having to operate on you it will kill you.
Please Audrey, leave the stones alone and have some cake instead.

16 Apr 2011, 17:42
N. I don't know what to say, I cannot help you anymore,
I am sorry.

16 Sep 2011, 01:25
Ashley: I'm sorry that I didn't see that something was wrong until it was too late. It's been a little over five years now, and I still haven't forgiven myself.

Myself: I'm sorry that I've hated you (myself) for years. It will get better. It's been a long journey, but I'm getting there.

21 Dec 2011, 13:50
Husband: sorry the house is a mess and dinner isn't ready. I know you don't care, but I'm sorry anyway

kids: Sorry I wouldn't let you eat the crayons today

MIL: Sorry I did throw out the one gift you gave the kids. We're not raising them Christian. Please stop being in denial and thinking we care what your parish is up to. We haven't been to Mass in years, remember?

Self: Sorry you're so bored with life. I know you wanna get back to school to finish your degree and work. Sorry you never wanted to be a stay at home mom, but you are and you know you love these kids so (wo)man up and stop making things worse with your procrastination. Sorry for being tough on you but dang it you'll get there eventually so learn to enjoy the awesome family you have more k?

21 Dec 2011, 13:59
Dear people who pass into my part of the universe,

I am NOT sorry. Nope. Just not gonna happen.

22 Dec 2011, 09:56
I'm sorry for my vengeful, petty anger, and my bitterness. I'm sorry for not trusting you. I'm sorry for being afraid of you for so long.

04 Mar 2012, 10:44
I'm sorry for beeing horrible firstborn.
My parents deserve much better.
I'm sorry for beeing worlds worst big sys.
I hope my brothers forgive me.
I'm sorry I havent saw my little brother growing up.
I'm sorry because I have made my mother cry so many times because of what I've did.

Huh.. that felt good.

04 Mar 2012, 23:50
I want to say sorry to myself , and I'm tired for overwork , but only thing that I can do is to stick !

19 Jun 2012, 17:34
Im sorry i tryed to make something work that from very early on was not going to work out...Im sorry to my son that did not live very long. Im sorry for causing his death. Im sorry.

We had a miscarriage and i truly fill like a monster.

19 Jul 2012, 18:55
I am so so sorry to my little sister, Baby Girl. If I had just consented to the MRI, I would have been diagnosed with that genetic condition. We would have known it ran in the family and maybe, just maybe, we could have saved you. I am so sorry Baby Girl.

To Jonie, for being a moody a stressy big brother. I love you really.

To Alex, for being a royal pain in the behind. That is what little brothers are for but I gave it to you good. Sorry Alex.I truly am.

16 Nov 2012, 00:45
I am sorry to my mom for not spending enough time with her and being so lazy about the things she asks me to do. I should be acting more grateful for everything she has done for me.
I am sorry to my boyfriend for always being so distracted. He gives me his full attention and deserves the same from me.
I am sorry to my two best friends for not calling them as often anymore. I've been acting selfish.
I am sorry to my dog for not petting him as much anymore because he's stinky. You can't help that you're a stinky butt. And you still need just as much love and attention as you did before <3

05 Feb 2013, 02:50
I would like to say sorry to everyone i hurt specially those people that i don't know.

02 May 2013, 19:21
I am so sorry I treated you horribly little brother, I'm sorry mom for all the stress I've ever put you through, and I'm sorry to all of the people I've ever hurt with my actions or words. Most of all, I am sorry for myself. For always judging the way I look and trying to change myself to please others. I'm so sorry I put myself through all of that.

02 May 2013, 19:34
I'm sorry to my brother because I should have done more to stop him when he was binging on pills.
I'm sorry to my Mom for how she found out I was bisexual and nonreligious. It should have been gentler.
I'm sorry to Joyce from all of the way back in 4th grade because I laughed at her in her time of need.
I'm sorry to Emily because I judged her when I should have been supportive and compassionate.
I'm sorry to myself, because I have spent many years judging and hurting myself when I should have been compassionate and understanding.
I'm sorry to Michael, because I should have spent longer with him before he left. It's too late now.
I'm sorry to Jason, because I made a huge misjudgement and broke his heart.
That's about all of the sorries that I muster for now, but I'm sure there's more in there somewhere. 19 years is plenty of times for a multiplicity of screw ups- an inveritable cornucopia of imperfection, in fact.

02 May 2013, 21:43
I apologize to myself, for not taking my own emotions seriously. Now the work begins digging my way back out.

03 May 2013, 00:24
I'm sorry that our relationship has taken a nosedive lately. I know I have my role in it too. I wish I knew how to fix it and get back to where we were. I love you and I hate the fact that we just moved in together, but almost never sleep together (in either sense of the term). I hate that we rarely spend any actual time together. I hate that I'm so mad at you all the time, but I don't know what to do about it.

07 May 2013, 12:34
I'm sorry, James, that I haven't made you as happy as you deserve but I thank you so much for giving me the opportunity to fix all of my flaws and insecurities.

I'm also sorry that I've been a crazy hormonal the last few days. But I can't fix that and I don't know how to help you understand my mood swings because I don't understand them myself. You're on your own.

And im sorry to the people that read this post about my hormonal craziness and think "Ewww".....But this thread was getting too emotional. Just trying to lighten things up!

07 May 2013, 12:47
Biggest one of my life...

I'm sorry to my former fiance for staying with you even though we both were so much happier when you finally left me. I thought you needed me, because of the cancer, and all the injuries you sustained after you were attacked, and I stayed. And I should have just left, but I thought I was doing the right thing.

And to my girlfriend, I'm sorry it took me all these years to finally be with you. Everyone knew we liked each other. It was just... So hard when I was with someone who was so close to death or suicide.

...I feel a lot better having written that out actually.

Lilium of the Valley
15 Oct 2013, 05:46
I'm sorry for many things. One thing in particular, I'm sorry when I hurt the people that mean the most to me. God knows I have. That I'm truly sorry for, from the bottom of my soul.

15 Oct 2013, 10:56
I'm sorry for acting like I don't need you. I do. I love you and I need you in my life. sometimes I take you for granted, or wish you weren't there, but that's on me. not on you. you're wonderful, and you've kept me alive. I promise to work harder at helping you. at being what you need me to be. and giving you the life you deserve. I'm sorry I sometimes put my friends or girlfriend first. it's not fair to you. but I'm going to try. and I trust you to keep kicking my ass if I go back to pretending you aren't there

Lilium of the Valley
28 Nov 2013, 07:06
I'm sorry for being impatient and irritable when I'm sick...I officially suck -_-

22 May 2014, 01:18
I'm sorry for not being a part of this forum when this thread was active. lol

I'm also sorry to everyone I've ever loved, for loving them too much when it was needed, and not loving them enough when it wasn't.
I'd like to say I'm sorry to the love of my life for not trusting him as much as I used to years ago, I'm sorry for letting reality come between me and delusional fantasies of perfect love. I'm sorry to the only real friend I have left for not being with him, because I know he wanted it to go that route, but it just wasn't meant for this lifetime. He deserves someone so much less 'Effed up than I am. Maybe if I was still that optimistic innocent girl from years ago (and single) it could have been something. All I can say about it is every line from "This is What Makes us Girls" by Lana del Rey.
I'm sorry to my father for not being closer to him right before he passed away, but I was only 6 months into being 18, and I had been providing most everything for myself for years, all I could think of was how to hold my composure. I'm sorry dad... I know we really didn't get along, but no one can tell me we didn't love each other. I'm sorry to everyone that's ever cared about me for not being able to open up to the love because of my intense fears of fleeting affection. I'm mostly over those fears now, but now... It's too late. And most of all... I have to say I'm sorry to my 15 year old self. She knew she would be a talented musician and songstress by the age of 24... Well, here it is, 300 poems and songs later, and it still hasn't happened. Life happened little girl, but I am sorry that your grand fantasies were harder to attain that you'd assumed. But, you're alive... You made it through some of the worst decisions and toughest trials anyone has ever faced. You nearly died over a dozen times, and now you're stronger and smarter than you've ever been. The only thing missing is the success... And, I'm sorry for that.

...Also, sorry to anyone reading this for the Essay. O_O; (lol)

22 May 2014, 09:39
I'm sorry because IRL, I apologize too much.

More importantly, I'm sorry that I've taught the trait by default to my daughter.

22 May 2014, 16:50
I'm sorry I lit the kitchen on fire again. I'm sorry I nailed the neighbor with bear spray. Wait, no, I'm not sorry about that, he's a wife-beating shitneck. I'm sorry I tied a scumbag to the hood and took him through the car wash (because now my hood is all screwed up and the motor pool manager is ticked). I'm sorry I can't take my job seriously anymore. I'm sorry I gave up cheap cigars. I'm sorry that...Well, I'm sorry.

Maria de Luna
22 May 2014, 19:37
I'm sorry I am awake, and I'm sorry that you don't sleep well, and I'm sorry that I can't curl up around you and drift off to sleep.

26 May 2014, 13:52
I'm sorry that life *IS*.

12 Jan 2015, 01:45
I'm sorry we didn't spend more time together. I'm sorry we drifted apart. I'm sorry I figured out I loved you too late. I'm sorry you're dead.

13 Jan 2015, 13:30
I am sorry for leaving in a huff last time I left. Forgive me for being a stubborn bear and thank you for taking me back with open arms.

03 Dec 2015, 10:12
To all PF folk, I'm sorry if I offended someone here and for being rude. Thanks for bearing me with all my weirdness! :p

03 Dec 2015, 12:58
To all PF folk, I'm sorry if I offended someone here and for being rude. Thanks for bearing me with all my weirdness! :p


pretty sure you are one of the least rude people here

03 Dec 2015, 13:02
-nods- :)

03 Dec 2015, 13:50
I guess I could say sorry for sort of vanishing for the last week and a half or so. I wound up getting back into an MMO, and also got myself a copy of Sims 4 so kinda just ... ignored everything else :(

03 Dec 2015, 15:11
Happens even to the best of us Munin.

03 Dec 2015, 16:37

*fans butt

03 Dec 2015, 21:49
I'm sorry. I'm just so angry with you, and I don't know what to do with it anymore.

04 Dec 2015, 00:47
"Who would you like to say sorry to?"

Me. Myself. I...
I've been in a lousy mood all week, and not taking proper care of myself, at all.
I'm making a public promise to try harder in the days to come in the hopes I'll listen to myself for once and actually do something about it before the rot well and truly sets in!!!

Now I would like to say sorry to all here for sounding so self-absorbed.
Up against it here, nursing one VERY sick Hubby.

20 Jan 2016, 08:26
I want to say sorry to my cat, for not paying enough attention to her. From now on I'll never let her spend her day without hugs and squeezes.