Apparently I'm not doing the 'right' 'rites'

[Serria]

Re: Apparently I'm not doing the 'right' 'rites'

scary? ...

*Roar*! Haha

[Medusa]

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I saw Wicker Man. I know what you guys are up to!


*runs to the shelter of my safe Satanism.

[anunitu]

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Knocks on Duce's door....Have you heard the good news????(hands full of pamphlets)

[Serria]

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Just an update. I may have to leave the site I was on because this person is just following my posts and harassing me about everything. I'm just so angry and I hate her for being able to get under my skin like this.

[anunitu]

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Got a troll do you,well here we only have trolls in story books..(Well usually,but the good thing here is we got MO to handle trolls)

[Serria]

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That's the thing, she's not a troll. She's someone I always supported and agreed with on this site. Even if I didn't agree with the Traditional Wiccan views she had, I was still supportive. However, when I say one thing, just one damn thing, she turns into a crazy, narrow-minded, ......UGHH!!!

[Tylluan Penry]

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That's the thing, she's not a troll. She's someone I always supported and agreed with on this site. Even if I didn't agree with the Traditional Wiccan views she had, I was still supportive. However, when I say one thing, just one damn thing, she turns into a crazy, narrow-minded, ......UGHH!!!

Then leave. Leave without explanation or backward glance - and make sure you aren't leaving any traces for her to follow if you can. If she is getting under your skin you both need a break. It will do you good, Serria, trust me!

[anunitu]

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And welcome to the human condition...People are at times very hard to understand,and also friends sometimes make themselves into enemy's or they were always that way,but hide it from you at first. People,can't live with them,can't find a decent place to hide the bodies....

[Serria]

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Ok, thank you

[Jembru]

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Then leave. Leave without explanation or backward glance - and make sure you aren't leaving any traces for her to follow if you can. If she is getting under your skin you both need a break. It will do you good, Serria, trust me!

This. These people are toxic. They don't have your spiritual growth at heart. They don't speak for the core values of Wicca. There unfortunately are some people within Traditional groups who have lost their way and gone off on power trips. I met a guy online once, with a similar arrogance to what you're describing; he was from the States, and unfortunately, there was a time over there when you could literally queue up at a convention and have Raymond Buckland initiate you.. which meant Gardnerian lineage for any watered down or whakey coven you wished to start up.. I later discovered that even within those groups with proper training, you get power trips. You shouldn't, because the training is designed to make you better than that, but somehow it's happening.

You simply don't need that crap. She and people like her are one of the reasons why so many people start off in wicca before tiptoeing away from 'all that crap'. Sure, it's often just not for them, but there are those for whom it could have been for, had they been lucky enough to meet the right kind of wiccan, at the right time. Don't let her poison wicca for you.

[Serria]

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I haven't. I enjoy sharing my opinion on that site, and I've started tying up the loose ends. I'll find another site where I can hopefully help young practitioners. The reason I was there was because most Wiccans don't take teens seriously. They did the same to me when I was starting, but I proved them wrong with my dedication to the faith I love. I had started out being the more open one on this site, and giving the newbies some information that they can use to decide if this is right for them. That's probably what they don't like, but I'll find another way to help the new practitioners, even if they don't stick with Wicca.

[Medusa]

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I'm sorry. It sometimes takes time to find the right site. I've come and gone to many of them. One day I'm there. The next thing I'm just gone. Not even giving it a backward glance.