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    "I don't relate to you, my kids are not liars"

    Great.... Any thoughts, guys?

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    I am sitting quietly in front of the computer, not a sound both from me and the computer. I told my mother i had a headache before and asked not to be bothered. When she saw me in front of the laptop she said that.
    (a short background to the story)
    "Fair means that everybody gets what they need. And the only way to get that is to make it happen yourself."



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    Re: "I don't relate to you, my kids are not liars"

    I'm sorry to hear that Gleb. Hugs.
    You remind me of the babe
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    Re: "I don't relate to you, my kids are not liars"

    Often when a person feels hurt they hurt others. I don't know the entirety of your situation, and probably don't need to, but I would guess that she spoke from a place of hurt. Sometimes it is the child who teaches the parent the meaning of unconditional love. Be well, Gleb. You are at a tough age, but everything you have posted here leads me to believe that you are heading toward being a well-grounded adult.

    "No, no, you're not thinking; you're just being logical." -- Niels Bohr

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    Re: "I don't relate to you, my kids are not liars"

    Thanks Iris, Nbdy. I lost any connection to the family some time ago.. So I've been wondering..
    "Fair means that everybody gets what they need. And the only way to get that is to make it happen yourself."



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    Re: "I don't relate to you, my kids are not liars"

    I'm sorry to hear that Gleb. It can be very painful when you lose contact with them, or have a situation where they don't understand or connect with you, and especially when they can sometimes make harmful accusations. It sucks that you're going through something like that, but I hope things get better. <('v')>

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    Re: "I don't relate to you, my kids are not liars"

    As they say in French - "Celavi" - this is life..
    "Fair means that everybody gets what they need. And the only way to get that is to make it happen yourself."



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    Re: "I don't relate to you, my kids are not liars"

    Gleb, family isn't just about blood. Some we choose and some we can't. It must be quite devastating when your own mother says something like that, but you'll survive. Make up your mind about that. Come here and have a hug!
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    Phantom Turnips never die.... they just get stewed occasionally....

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    Re: "I don't relate to you, my kids are not liars"

    Thanks, Tylluan. I have been surviving for 9 years. There is no reason for me not to survive a bit more. -hugs-
    "Fair means that everybody gets what they need. And the only way to get that is to make it happen yourself."



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    Re: "I don't relate to you, my kids are not liars"

    *hug* Gleb, I've struggled with my family for a long time. Many family members have said horrible things to me, and I probably should have cut them out of my life years ago, but I've never been able to. I don't know the story, but their words and actions are a reflection of them, not you.

    To quote fall out boy: "You are what you love, not who loves you". I know it can be discouraging to hear, but just remember that you are more than that, and that they are wrong.
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    Re: &quot;I don't relate to you, my kids are not liars&quot;

    I'm sorry you had to pass through this, faye_cat. Nobody deserves such treatment. Actually, the quote is pretty encouraging.
    I don't particularly like anything, but I understand the quote as a source of inspiration. I only wish the local system was more helpful..

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    I just don't want to be pitied. I know I'm strong but everyone has their own breakdown moments.
    "Fair means that everybody gets what they need. And the only way to get that is to make it happen yourself."



    Since I adore cats, I might write something strange or unusual in my comment.Cats are awesome!!! ^_^

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