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    Re: The Rant Thread (v 1.2)

    Thank you Anu... yea, she's a special sot of nasty...and she does have control issues. She gets jealous of the people who help me. She gets jealous of me if she thinks I'm talking to my dad without her knowing... Which I do of course, he's my dad. She constantly tries to break me down. Last night her main event was 'I can't believe Torben hasn't left you yet' another favourite is 'there must be something wrong with him if he likes you'. I know very well she's terrified of losning control over me. But it still hurts.

    I'm trying, but she usually comes uo with some stunt when I do. Like forbidding me from seing my dad, or threatening to kill herself because I hate her, or just tell her side of the family how terrible I am.
    You remind me of the babe
    What babe?
    The babe with the power
    What power?
    The Power of voodoo
    Who do?
    You do!
    Do what?
    Remind me of the babe!

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      Michael Jackson WAS a pedophile ... With a funny looking Miss Piggy nose ... Now he is oxygen bleached worm food ...
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      The Chief nodded in agreement.

      The official continued; "Considering all these events, in your opinion, where did the white man go wrong?"

      The Chief stared at the government official for over a minute and then calmly replied.. "When white man find land, Indians running it, no taxes, no debt, plenty buffalo, plenty beaver, clean water. Women did all the work, Medicine Man free. Indian man spend all day hunting and fishing; all night having sex."

      Then the chief leaned back and smiled; "Only white man dumb enough to think he could improve system like that."



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        Re: The Rant Thread (v 1.2)

        Sometimes we have to get away from toxic people. I myself am going to get away from my parents as soon as possible... Heck, maybe even my whole family if I can. I'm sorry you have to go through all this.
        "Fair means that everybody gets what they need. And the only way to get that is to make it happen yourself."



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          Re: The Rant Thread (v 1.2)

          Originally posted by Gleb View Post
          Sometimes we have to get away from toxic people. I myself am going to get away from my parents as soon as possible... Heck, maybe even my whole family if I can. I'm sorry you have to go through all this.
          I wish I could just do that. I've considdered it. But I like a lot of my family. And she's still my mom.
          You remind me of the babe
          What babe?
          The babe with the power
          What power?
          The Power of voodoo
          Who do?
          You do!
          Do what?
          Remind me of the babe!

          Army of Darkness: Guardians of the Chat

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            Re: The Rant Thread (v 1.2)

            I really do not understand people at times..like your Mother doing these things to you. My EX's sister has a daughter who is gay,and when the sister got Cancer(she was about 75) she told her Gay daughter that she got cancer because god was angry about her daughter being gay. True story,and my Ex's sister died from the cancer but her daughter had to live with that statement her Mother made before she died.
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            all i ever wanted was a normal life and love.
            NO TERF EVER WE belong Too.
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              Re: The Rant Thread (v 1.2)

              People are lovely. I don't understand either. I really don't... my grandmother had cancer too, she spent 10 years going 'if I die tomorrow it will be your fault if you didn't say goodbye' every time someone got mad at her. She was much like my mother. I pray it's not the genes. But when she actually did die, I hadn't talked to her for over a year.
              You remind me of the babe
              What babe?
              The babe with the power
              What power?
              The Power of voodoo
              Who do?
              You do!
              Do what?
              Remind me of the babe!

              Army of Darkness: Guardians of the Chat

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                Re: The Rant Thread (v 1.2)

                Iris, I'm going to suggest a book. It's called Mothers who Can't Love. The author is Susan Forward. It's a great self help type book for situations like yours. Its really helped me with my mom. A couple themes, set firm boundaries and stick to them. It can be as simple as, "mom, if you continue talking to me this way, I'm ending the conversation." And learn non defensive language. Saying "I'm sorry you feel that way" instead of trying to defend your position. These are long term though, they take awhile to work. For you're wedding, think about a "bodyguard". Find a friend who is willing and capable and ask them to escort her out if you give a signal.
                We are what we are. Nothing more, nothing less. There is good and evil among every kind of people. It's the evil among us who rule now. -Anne Bishop, Daughter of the Blood

                I wondered if he could ever understand that it was a blessing, not a sin, to be graced with more than one love.
                It could be complicated; of course it could be complicated. And it opened one up to the possibility of more pain and loss.
                Still, it was a blessing I would never relinquish. Love, genuine love, was always a cause for joy.
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                  Re: The Rant Thread (v 1.2)

                  It's cold here today 50 degrees, and that's exciting

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                    Re: The Rant Thread (v 1.2)

                    Originally posted by Shahaku View Post
                    Iris, I'm going to suggest a book. It's called Mothers who Can't Love. The author is Susan Forward. It's a great self help type book for situations like yours. Its really helped me with my mom. A couple themes, set firm boundaries and stick to them. It can be as simple as, "mom, if you continue talking to me this way, I'm ending the conversation." And learn non defensive language. Saying "I'm sorry you feel that way" instead of trying to defend your position. These are long term though, they take awhile to work. For you're wedding, think about a "bodyguard". Find a friend who is willing and capable and ask them to escort her out if you give a signal.
                    Thank you. I just ordered it, should have it sometime next week.
                    I have. I told one friend, who called another. Now I have a whole army of friends all intent on making my day great, and ready to step in. One is ready to come yell 'surprise' saturday morning if I need someone (my mom can't get mad at me for bringing in someone if she thinks it's not my idea). I don't have a ton of friends. But they are great friends.
                    You remind me of the babe
                    What babe?
                    The babe with the power
                    What power?
                    The Power of voodoo
                    Who do?
                    You do!
                    Do what?
                    Remind me of the babe!

                    Army of Darkness: Guardians of the Chat

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                      Re: The Rant Thread (v 1.2)

                      The temps here are down as well,and it feels like fall at last..
                      MAGIC is MAGIC,black OR white or even blood RED

                      all i ever wanted was a normal life and love.
                      NO TERF EVER WE belong Too.
                      don't stop the tears.let them flood your soul.




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                      my new page here,let me know what you think.


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                        Re: The Rant Thread (v 1.2)

                        Iris,you deserve a wonderful wedding. I'm glad you have your troops in place. I'm sorry about your mother. I hope that you know that it is not your fault, and you do not deserve to be treated that way.

                        And my rant is my teenager making poor choices. I understand, but am afraid she won't be able to ever recover from the consequences. Just feeling particularly frustrated tonight. Just yuck.

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                          Re: The Rant Thread (v 1.2)

                          The three days of overtime is killing me. I mean I'm trying. I really am. But there is a reason I don't push myself anymore (old heart attack put the hell no to that). At work I was so stressed, I convinced myself I was having a heart attack. My blood pressure is very high right now. I tested it at work. I could feel the tense in my jaw and shoulders. And I just kept being out of breath.

                          Well I rode my bike home and I'm not dead or out of breath (any more than usual when biking home). So It's def work driving me to feel like this. And guess what else?

                          I was supposed to go 11-7 so I thought I would go to bed later since I could sleep in. Five hours later I get a call. I have to work 9-6. Another OT shift. And now I have 3 hours and then I have to go to bed if I want real sleep. I have to do 6am to 2:30pm.

                          I'm very disgruntled. And I don't care who knows it.
                          Satan is my spirit animal

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                            Re: The Rant Thread (v 1.2)

                            Here is a thing Duce,they can offer OT,but you are not obliged to accept it. I know because I worked in California and know the labor code. If they were to try and say it is mandatory,it is a violation of the labor code. The California labor code is one of the strictest protections in the whole US.

                            - - - Updated - - -

                            Just checked and they can require overtime,I think this must have changed after I was in California. You having a medical condition that would be aggravated by work stress should be allowed to forgo overtime if it would hurt you,and your employer should be libel if you suffer hurt.
                            MAGIC is MAGIC,black OR white or even blood RED

                            all i ever wanted was a normal life and love.
                            NO TERF EVER WE belong Too.
                            don't stop the tears.let them flood your soul.




                            sigpic

                            my new page here,let me know what you think.


                            nothing but the shadow of what was

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                              Re: The Rant Thread (v 1.2)

                              All you need is a note from your doctor saying that the OT is affecting your physical condition and you can no longer work more than - - - hours a week.
                              I know, I did it.
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                                Re: The Rant Thread (v 1.2)

                                this lying pendeja
                                Satan is my spirit animal

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