My Life Sucks

[Bartmanhomer]

My life sucks. Always has been and always will be. I'm stupid, ugly and fat. I'm the most negative person in the whole world. I can't do anything right. I lost hope and all I got is misery and negativity.

[thalassa]

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If you think your life sucks, do something about it. Feeling sorry for yourself won't make things better.
You have two hands and two feet, eyes that see and ears that hear. You live in one of the most privileged societies of all time with food to eat, clothes on your back, and a roof over your head. No matter how much you think your life sucks, you have it good compared to most people on this planet. There are two ways to live...you either sit aound and let Life ride you like a *****, or you get off you butt and take Life for a ride like the ***** that she is.

[Medusa]

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My life sucks. Always has been and always will be. I'm stupid, ugly and fat. I'm the most negative person in the whole world. I can't do anything right. I lost hope and all I got is misery and negativity.

Oh I know quite a few people who are way more negative than you. Your sense of humor tells me not all hope is lost with you.

Try being me. I literally have the words 'abandon all hope' tattooed on my very skin. Sorry. I beat you.

[Thrudr]

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No one's had an easy ride. Just find some way to deal with your issues and feelings. Talk to people, make art, write, watch a sad movie, put on some good music, watch funny animal videos on YouTube, go for a run, eat chocolate ice cream, have a good cry, punch something... There's enough options. Just don't stay stuck in your emotions, that will not help you.

[B. de Corbin]

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It is possible to end suckiness, but only if you really want to.

Most folks prefer to just wallow in suck.

[Bartmanhomer]

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If you think your life sucks, do something about it. Feeling sorry for yourself won't make things better.
You have two hands and two feet, eyes that see and ears that hear. You live in one of the most privileged societies of all time with food to eat, clothes on your back, and a roof over your head. No matter how much you think your life sucks, you have it good compared to most people on this planet. There are two ways to live...you either sit aound and let Life ride you like a *****, or you get off you butt and take Life for a ride like the ***** that she is.

I like to choose wallow in pain for $600 Alex.

[DragonsFriend]

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BMH,
It is my experience that it is almost a certainty that what you say the most often is what you will get. Fear works pretty much the same way. What you fear the most is very likely to manifest itself in your life.
Here is a piece of prose that I wrote a long time ago when I was feeling depressed. Maybe it can help you:

SELF LOVE

by Paul

Be happy with yourself, your achievements
and the work you've done to become what you are;
but never satisfied lest you stagnate or become vain.


Keep faith in yourself and in the universe,
for they both contain the power to sustain you.


Let rewards neither deter your good deeds nor be the cause.
Have grace in receiving as well as in giving;


Remember always; your life is made by the will and the word.
Desire that which is good and say only what you desire.


Above all else: walk softly, touching gently those you encounter along your way.
Life is a precious thing that should only be taken with love.

COPYRIGHT (c) 1985 Paul Stephens

[Herbert]

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Intelligent people are more prone to depression, ugly people are often more successful in the workplace, and overweight people are often more healthy overall than underweight people . Even if you do match those descriptors (which you don't!), you're probably better off than normal.

[Thrudr]

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BMH,
It is my experience that it is almost a certainty that what you say the most often is what you will get. Fear works pretty much the same way. What you fear the most is very likely to manifest itself in your life.
Here is a piece of prose that I wrote a long time ago when I was feeling depressed. Maybe it can help you:

SELF LOVE

by Paul

Be happy with yourself, your achievements
and the work you've done to become what you are;
but never satisfied lest you stagnate or become vain.


Keep faith in yourself and in the universe,
for they both contain the power to sustain you.


Let rewards neither deter your good deeds nor be the cause.
Have grace in receiving as well as in giving;


Remember always; your life is made by the will and the word.
Desire that which is good and say only what you desire.


Above all else: walk softly, touching gently those you encounter along your way.
Life is a precious thing that should only be taken with love.

COPYRIGHT (c) 1985 Paul Stephens

Beautiful prose Here is another one from one of my favorite poets. I hope it helps you BMH. It sure does help me on bad days.
'Instructions for a bad day' by Shane Koyczan

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7OGY1Jxp3o

[DragonsFriend]

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Very good thoughts brought to the foundations of life in poetry, Thrudr. Thanks for sharing.

[Juniper]

I like to choose wallow in pain for $600 Alex.

Can you do it somewhere other than PF then? We have plenty of people who are willing to try and help you see things differently or help you figure out how to deal with this problems but if you're not even going to listen then you can go somewhere else. This forum is not a psychic trashcan for you do dump your negativity at.

[Bartmanhomer]

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Beautiful prose Here is another one from one of my favorite poets. I hope it helps you BMH. It sure does help me on bad days.
'Instructions for a bad day' by Shane Koyczan
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7OGY1Jxp3o

Oh it's helps me a lot. Thank you.