Results 1 to 2 of 2

Thread: Help with guidance or something, just going through a lot

  1. #1
    Sr. Member Serria's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2013
    Eclectic Wicca
    Aboard the Tardis in the Narnia of Tattoine
    Veni Vidi Vici

    Help with guidance or something, just going through a lot

    Hey guys it's little old Serria again.

    I've been having an influx of bad days lately. I've always kind of had bad health days because I have a ton of health problems so I'm not bothered by those as much. A lot of it is kind of social type problems.

    I just really need like some kind of prayer or meditation or really any kind of thing that will allow me to hopefully get rid of a lot of this negative energy that's been around lately. I want to hopefully attract more positivity toward my home and space.

    Another part of it is that I really want to send some kind of positivity and stress relief my boyfriend's way. He's such a great person but he's not always the best with stress. He's struggling with quitting smoking so that's a thing too. I just want to hopefully send some kind of energy his way to maybe relax him a bit. I can't see him during the week because of his work schedule so I can't always be there to talk to him and let him talk every thing out.

    Not everything has been bad but enough has that I am not as happy as I usually am and I want to deal with it a bit.

    But yea, any sort of insight you guys might have would be great. Life has been getting in the way of Wicca a lot for the past couple years but you always turn back to your faith when you need it though haha.

    As always,
    A Happy Little Wiccan

    Army of Darkness: Guardians of the Chat

    Because who needs a life when you have a chatroom.

  2. #2

    Re: Help with guidance or something, just going through a lot

    Hey, I did a post like this a few months ago. I send you positive energy.

    Advice that may or may not be right for you:
    Give yourself permission to work the little things that you need to take care of yourself. Sometimes you need to focus on those, and problems/bad energy don't get better until you do. Then when you do them, the changes are steady and substantial. I don't know what those are for you, but often just the obvious rest and more rest, good nutrition, scheduling time for fun, exercise and spiritual practice are the answer. Make your home a little nicer for yourself- clean or decorate or something. You probably know what you need. Also, maybe just take the time to acknowledge that things kind of suck right now, and you are not a bad person for feeling bad about it. Go ahead and feel sad or angry or whatever you feel. Then do something nice for yourself. If you need to take action, start with small steps until you build up the strength and courage to make the necessary changes.

    It sounds like this is a situational problem, but obviously, if you suspect you have signs of ongoing depression you might want professional help.

    Ignore the advice or take it to heart as you wish, but please accept the loving spirit in which it was given.

Similar Threads

  1. Looking for some guidance
    By Thirsty Fox in forum Pagan Traditions & Discussion
    Replies: 8
    Last Post: 15 Dec 2015, 00:11
  2. Could Use a Little Guidance
    By John Blackthorne in forum Celtic Traditions
    Replies: 8
    Last Post: 16 Mar 2014, 12:14
  3. Odinism guidance
    By 7.62 in forum Heathen Traditions
    Replies: 4
    Last Post: 01 Dec 2013, 06:36
  4. Too many pathways, not enough guidance.
    By Steena_Renee in forum Catacombs
    Replies: 6
    Last Post: 28 Apr 2013, 04:25
  5. In need of guidance...
    By Vierthdan in forum Catacombs
    Replies: 1
    Last Post: 26 Oct 2012, 03:57


Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts