A little background here for those that haven't heard me ramble about this shit for the last 6 years....
Prior to meeting my wife (as in, about 3 days prior) I broke up with my girlfriend of 10 months. It was an ugly relationship - she had more baggage than I care to count (daddy issues among the top of them)...there were some good times, but mostly just painful to tolerate. When we broke up, it was due to her moving back home (about 2000 miles away) and she (like a retard) didn't realize that the relationship was going to end as a result of that. Sooo, of course, the day that she flew out she blew a gasket about how we wouldn't be dating anymore - yadda yadda yadda.
Fast forward...erm...3 days. I met GG (my wife)...a fluke accident. A year later we were married.
After the g/f and I had been broken up for over a year, I heard that she was getting married again. I sent her an email just checking to see how she was and to try to be friendly. The response that I got back was catty and coy, and basically said something like, "I've never understood why ex-boyfriends always think that they've got to be friends with their ex's". Soo, despite having HER friends notify me every time there was a change in her life (I suspect to try to make me feel bad or something...I have no clue, honestly), I've mostly just ignored what she's done with her life.
Well, since I've recently gotten a FB account, she sent me an email acknowledging the road trip and asking me to swing by and see her when I'm near Minnesota. She and I are both married - there's no danger of anything weird happening on that front, but I'm not quite sure how I feel about reconnecting with her. Her email said something about "I'd like to meet up with you again now that we're adults..." (yeah, I know, I was way more adult than her, but whatever)...
What do you think? I don't think any harm will come from meeting her...and I will be talking to GG about it, regardless...just curious as to what you folks think.
Prior to meeting my wife (as in, about 3 days prior) I broke up with my girlfriend of 10 months. It was an ugly relationship - she had more baggage than I care to count (daddy issues among the top of them)...there were some good times, but mostly just painful to tolerate. When we broke up, it was due to her moving back home (about 2000 miles away) and she (like a retard) didn't realize that the relationship was going to end as a result of that. Sooo, of course, the day that she flew out she blew a gasket about how we wouldn't be dating anymore - yadda yadda yadda.
Fast forward...erm...3 days. I met GG (my wife)...a fluke accident. A year later we were married.
After the g/f and I had been broken up for over a year, I heard that she was getting married again. I sent her an email just checking to see how she was and to try to be friendly. The response that I got back was catty and coy, and basically said something like, "I've never understood why ex-boyfriends always think that they've got to be friends with their ex's". Soo, despite having HER friends notify me every time there was a change in her life (I suspect to try to make me feel bad or something...I have no clue, honestly), I've mostly just ignored what she's done with her life.
Well, since I've recently gotten a FB account, she sent me an email acknowledging the road trip and asking me to swing by and see her when I'm near Minnesota. She and I are both married - there's no danger of anything weird happening on that front, but I'm not quite sure how I feel about reconnecting with her. Her email said something about "I'd like to meet up with you again now that we're adults..." (yeah, I know, I was way more adult than her, but whatever)...
What do you think? I don't think any harm will come from meeting her...and I will be talking to GG about it, regardless...just curious as to what you folks think.
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