My boyfriend and I have been together now for 9 months and in the beginning when I found out that his best friend was a women I didn't really care that much because we were "just dating" but now that things are more serious (we live together and just opened an LLC ) I am starting to want her out of my life. The background is that she was originally his brother's friend until he moved and then those two became friends after highschool, also her mother is his mom's BF.
Anyway, he claims that they have never been together and that they look at each other as brother and sister. BUT, here are some other facts:
She is VERY pretty
She is married with two kids
I recently saw something in his facebook messages that he left open from a while back writing to her about me saying that I was emotionally damaged, that I was a cool girl but eventually he would lose his mind ( och )
He feels very close her and always commenting on what a great mother she is knowing I don't really like kids
He hasn't really talked to her in a while but today he said that he wants us to go over there on Saturday and I almost dropped my weight. ( at the gym)
I am trying to decide if I should go or not? He knows how I feel but is kind of trying to say she will always be a part of his life and is defensive about it.
What do I do? Stay calm and go? Ignore it?
I want her out of my life. Sorry but I just can't be cool about this one.
Anyway, he claims that they have never been together and that they look at each other as brother and sister. BUT, here are some other facts:
She is VERY pretty
She is married with two kids
I recently saw something in his facebook messages that he left open from a while back writing to her about me saying that I was emotionally damaged, that I was a cool girl but eventually he would lose his mind ( och )
He feels very close her and always commenting on what a great mother she is knowing I don't really like kids
He hasn't really talked to her in a while but today he said that he wants us to go over there on Saturday and I almost dropped my weight. ( at the gym)
I am trying to decide if I should go or not? He knows how I feel but is kind of trying to say she will always be a part of his life and is defensive about it.
What do I do? Stay calm and go? Ignore it?
I want her out of my life. Sorry but I just can't be cool about this one.
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