While talking to Monster in another thread, my lil buddy made a point about how mothers think their children are all little angels. Now I'm not going to make any sweeping generalizations about mother/daughter relationships. But I made a comment on how my mother called me out on my pre teen shenanigans (on more then one occasion). It seems this has been called my crappy childhood. Which, those of you who know me, well yeah my childhood was craptastically horrid. But that aside. Am I crazy here to think most mother/daughter relationships do not revolve around the 'my darling little angel' scenario? I'm almost dead certain none of our mothers were that kind to us. No, I don't mean 'mean' mothers. I mean mothers who, when faced with our shit, put us in our place, pronto.
My mother wasn't mean. But she taught me quite a few things about what was acceptable from me and what was not. Not once calling me her darling angel who could do no wrong. That was left for her son.
Which, by the way, I believe mothers are much more lenient with their sons then their daughters. I'm guessing this is seeing herself in her daughter. Wanting to keep her from all her mistakes. Make her be better then she is. Even if she does it in a scary ass way.
What say you women? How did your mother put you in your place, where you look back and thank god she did?
My mother wasn't mean. But she taught me quite a few things about what was acceptable from me and what was not. Not once calling me her darling angel who could do no wrong. That was left for her son.
Which, by the way, I believe mothers are much more lenient with their sons then their daughters. I'm guessing this is seeing herself in her daughter. Wanting to keep her from all her mistakes. Make her be better then she is. Even if she does it in a scary ass way.
What say you women? How did your mother put you in your place, where you look back and thank god she did?
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