Re: Guys, I have a serious problem....
What you described is not dark humor. It's classic emotional abuse, classic precursers to physical abuse, and a classic reaction to being confronted that attempts to make you doubt yourself. The next step in the playbook is apologies... all sweet like and sounding as sincere as can be. Ignore it. You did so well to get this far... it doesn't sound like you'll fall for the apologies, but be prepared for them! Cut all ties, do exactly what you've told us you're going to do, and stand firm.
If you are into energy work, it may also be worth doing some checking to ensure there are no energetic ties to him. These sorts of relationships often end up with energetic ties, which can be very insidious and difficult to rid yourself of. A very simple ritual is to tie an object that represents you and one that represents him together and empower them to represent any energetic, emotional or psychological connections between you. Then physically cut, burn, unwind or otherwise demolish the tie connecting them. I don't know if you feel that there was co-dependency issues between you, but if there were then before you cut, intend to bring all parts of yourself back first. 'Cut all ties' is not just a figure of speech lol
What you described is not dark humor. It's classic emotional abuse, classic precursers to physical abuse, and a classic reaction to being confronted that attempts to make you doubt yourself. The next step in the playbook is apologies... all sweet like and sounding as sincere as can be. Ignore it. You did so well to get this far... it doesn't sound like you'll fall for the apologies, but be prepared for them! Cut all ties, do exactly what you've told us you're going to do, and stand firm.
If you are into energy work, it may also be worth doing some checking to ensure there are no energetic ties to him. These sorts of relationships often end up with energetic ties, which can be very insidious and difficult to rid yourself of. A very simple ritual is to tie an object that represents you and one that represents him together and empower them to represent any energetic, emotional or psychological connections between you. Then physically cut, burn, unwind or otherwise demolish the tie connecting them. I don't know if you feel that there was co-dependency issues between you, but if there were then before you cut, intend to bring all parts of yourself back first. 'Cut all ties' is not just a figure of speech lol
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