Re: Humanism
This is at least the second time you've made a claim of humans being depraved, lacking morality, or giving in to hedonism. I asked for a citation before and didn't receive it. I see no problem with allowing others to live and let live so long as they're not harming anyone. Is it really affecting your life if I'm in the BDSM scene? Or that the gender of my partner makes no difference to me? The more accepting attitude about sex and sexuality makes this world a far more tolerable place for those of us not considered the "norm".
Your argument against sexual relativism makes no sense. It's "as long as no one gets hurt". If my theoretical spouse and I had a closed, vanilla relationship and they suddenly decided they wanted to be poly, that would hurt me because it wasn't what we agreed to. If I suddenly wanted to bring bdsm into the bedroom and they had no interest in it, that would hurt them because it wasn't what they agreed to. In sexual relativism, you seem to be leaving out the fact that consent needs to be present for no one to be harmed.
Total humanism the world over just isn't a logical goal. We all can't be Mother Teresa. I donate money where I can to help causes for groups that are suffering. Does that mean that I think I'm saving the world? Of course not. But the ten dollars I give to each charity a month is still ten more dollars that they didn't have. I do what's in my power to help, which unfortunately due to my health is only monetary at this point, and that's a lot more important and powerful than just throwing up my hands and saying that we're doomed.
Originally posted by Seeking a Religion
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Your argument against sexual relativism makes no sense. It's "as long as no one gets hurt". If my theoretical spouse and I had a closed, vanilla relationship and they suddenly decided they wanted to be poly, that would hurt me because it wasn't what we agreed to. If I suddenly wanted to bring bdsm into the bedroom and they had no interest in it, that would hurt them because it wasn't what they agreed to. In sexual relativism, you seem to be leaving out the fact that consent needs to be present for no one to be harmed.
Total humanism the world over just isn't a logical goal. We all can't be Mother Teresa. I donate money where I can to help causes for groups that are suffering. Does that mean that I think I'm saving the world? Of course not. But the ten dollars I give to each charity a month is still ten more dollars that they didn't have. I do what's in my power to help, which unfortunately due to my health is only monetary at this point, and that's a lot more important and powerful than just throwing up my hands and saying that we're doomed.
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