This topic came up at work today...
When is it okay to snoop on your partner?
Never? If you accidentally catch them doing something first? If you have evidence they are doing something but lied when asked? If you just suspect them of doing something?
If you think it can be okay, do you think you are obligated to tell them about it?
Would you confront them if you found something? What would be a "deal breaker" in your relationship?
(and I guess this could be a cheating scenario, but it was discussed more as "something we've agreed isn't okay in our relationship" sort of thing...so maybe porn, or drinking, or strip clubs...either way, something that one partner let the other partner know what *not* okay with them)
When is it okay to snoop on your partner?
Never? If you accidentally catch them doing something first? If you have evidence they are doing something but lied when asked? If you just suspect them of doing something?
If you think it can be okay, do you think you are obligated to tell them about it?
Would you confront them if you found something? What would be a "deal breaker" in your relationship?
(and I guess this could be a cheating scenario, but it was discussed more as "something we've agreed isn't okay in our relationship" sort of thing...so maybe porn, or drinking, or strip clubs...either way, something that one partner let the other partner know what *not* okay with them)
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