Hello everyone!
Here is the thing - I have a friend who's 2 years older than me. We talk often via facebook, sometimes skype. The problem is that she always runs away when it comes to standing her ground or doing big deeds like getting out of her "village", go to college, get a degree and become independant. Many people did that, so there is absolutely no reason for her not to. She's also quite lazy. However she's also very kind and loving.
Now she's 20, after high school with no plans for the future. At all. She lives in USA, btw. I understand when people take a break from high school and go for a trip or something like that, but all she does is depending on her parents.. When I try to convince her to start learning for the driver's license, gather some money for a car and then she'll be able to do the rest of stuff, she runs away and says she doesn't have any resources. I-n-t-e-r-n-e-t!!!
She says it's too much for her to do. I never said this should be done quickly!!!!! But having totally no plans for her life?
Sorry if it sounds like a rant, I just don't know what to do. Sometimes I think only a life changing even will ever trigger something in her body..
Any ideas?
Here is the thing - I have a friend who's 2 years older than me. We talk often via facebook, sometimes skype. The problem is that she always runs away when it comes to standing her ground or doing big deeds like getting out of her "village", go to college, get a degree and become independant. Many people did that, so there is absolutely no reason for her not to. She's also quite lazy. However she's also very kind and loving.
Now she's 20, after high school with no plans for the future. At all. She lives in USA, btw. I understand when people take a break from high school and go for a trip or something like that, but all she does is depending on her parents.. When I try to convince her to start learning for the driver's license, gather some money for a car and then she'll be able to do the rest of stuff, she runs away and says she doesn't have any resources. I-n-t-e-r-n-e-t!!!
She says it's too much for her to do. I never said this should be done quickly!!!!! But having totally no plans for her life?
Sorry if it sounds like a rant, I just don't know what to do. Sometimes I think only a life changing even will ever trigger something in her body..
Any ideas?
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