(If this gets too debatey I will move it, until then it seems like a nice discussion thread)
I was talking to a friend the other day about my sexuality. I have never considered myself gay or bi-sexual or straight in any way shape or form because to me I see the person not the gender. Because I am so picky about who I like and dislike when I meet someone I have a real connection with I don't care if its a he/she/he-she/she-he/it. Gender never really comes into it at all with me and to be honest I don't think it ever has.
My friend thinks this is a very unhealthy attitude because you should be (in her words) for one side or the other. She doesn't believe in being bi-sexual and likes to label everything. I think that my attitude (having really thought about it properly for the first time) is very healthy. You can't help who you fall in love with and who says that ten years down the line I won't meet some smokin' lassy who I find too exceptional not to fall for? I don't know. I just think gender is a non-issue when it comes to love.
Thoughts? X
I was talking to a friend the other day about my sexuality. I have never considered myself gay or bi-sexual or straight in any way shape or form because to me I see the person not the gender. Because I am so picky about who I like and dislike when I meet someone I have a real connection with I don't care if its a he/she/he-she/she-he/it. Gender never really comes into it at all with me and to be honest I don't think it ever has.
My friend thinks this is a very unhealthy attitude because you should be (in her words) for one side or the other. She doesn't believe in being bi-sexual and likes to label everything. I think that my attitude (having really thought about it properly for the first time) is very healthy. You can't help who you fall in love with and who says that ten years down the line I won't meet some smokin' lassy who I find too exceptional not to fall for? I don't know. I just think gender is a non-issue when it comes to love.
Thoughts? X
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