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    #106
    Re: Parenting Debate: To Snip or no?

    I also wonder how many fathers decide to do it or not depending upon their own penis image. I mean alot of I want to make sure son matches daddy. Am I crazy thinking this?
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      #107
      Re: Parenting Debate: To Snip or no?

      Originally posted by Medusa View Post
      I also wonder how many fathers decide to do it or not depending upon their own penis image. I mean alot of I want to make sure son matches daddy. Am I crazy thinking this?
      That is an interresting thought, I wonder if there are studies done on it.... How would you even do a study on it?
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        #108
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        Originally posted by Medusa View Post
        I also wonder how many fathers decide to do it or not depending upon their own penis image. I mean alot of I want to make sure son matches daddy. Am I crazy thinking this?
        Actually, I've read this often on mom forums...
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          #109
          Re: Parenting Debate: To Snip or no?

          I'm with Dez about this on the first page. This whole issue has many myths about it in USA. I've met immigrants who went and got it done as grown men because all these Americans are saying it's healthier and cleaner. Poor guys. The only state I'd say that doesn't practice it nearly as much is California. Possibly due to the high immigration population. I wasn't born or raised here but when I moved out here as an adult, it was my first time hearing people be against it. "Why would I do that or to my son, I'm not Jewish!" I hear all the time. I was always raised to believe that's what all boys do, it's just something you do! lol I saw a documentary on it about how a large percentage of men are reversing the procedure in USA. It's on the decline here and I don't plan to do it when I have a son. My husband already said no way. hahah

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            #110
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              #111
              Re: Parenting Debate: To Snip or no?

              I hear the "trouble with the ladies" thing a lot from Americans. It's kind of weird, because over here almost no one does it and no one cares. If a guy is, it'll be kind of different but it's not a big deal either.

              If it means anything, I read it's on the decline in the US, so it might be likely that if you don't do it to your son, it wont be that odd anymore.

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                #112
                Re: Parenting Debate: To Snip or no?

                See, I don't see why they keep using that "for her" argument either. I've had experience with both and didn't notice a difference. If you're worried about performance, perform better. Take her into consideration. Work out (yes, having physical endurance improves your sex life from my experience).

                As for "uncleanliness": yes, it's another fold to trap crud in. That's why you wash it.

                ADD: from my experience most of the people who use these arguments against circumcision have never experienced uncircumcised men and base it off of a crappy sex education.
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                  #113
                  Re: Parenting Debate: To Snip or no?

                  Originally posted by Caelia View Post
                  See, I don't see why they keep using that "for her" argument either. I've had experience with both and didn't notice a difference. If you're worried about performance, perform better. Take her into consideration. Work out (yes, having physical endurance improves your sex life from my experience).

                  As for "uncleanliness": yes, it's another fold to trap crud in. That's why you wash it.

                  ADD: from my experience most of the people who use these arguments against circumcision have never experienced uncircumcised men and base it off of a crappy sex education.
                  It may be something that they don't notice when watching, but alot of guys in porn now are not cut, they are in older porn, but the new stuff not so much. Maybe knowing that would help alot of guys realize it is not as popular as it used to be? It seems like an adult decision tho... not a mommy-daddy one, to me at least.

                  I hope this is not too much info...
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                    #114
                    Re: Parenting Debate: To Snip or no?

                    I didn't know that. Now that raises more questions for me...
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                      #115
                      Re: Parenting Debate: To Snip or no?

                      Originally posted by Caelia View Post
                      I've had experience with both and didn't notice a difference. If you're worried about performance, perform better. Take her into consideration. Work out (yes, having physical endurance improves your sex life from my experience).
                      This x10^10
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                        #116
                        Re: Parenting Debate: To Snip or no?

                        Originally posted by Maria de Luna View Post
                        It may be something that they don't notice when watching, but alot of guys in porn now are not cut, they are in older porn, but the new stuff not so much. Maybe knowing that would help alot of guys realize it is not as popular as it used to be? It seems like an adult decision tho... not a mommy-daddy one, to me at least.

                        I hope this is not too much info...
                        Is it maybe because a lot of porn (especially stuff on the free porn tube channels) is European? I see a lot of porn from Germany, Eastern Europe, and even the UK on those....

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                          #117
                          Re: Parenting Debate: To Snip or no?

                          Originally posted by DanieMarie View Post
                          Is it maybe because a lot of porn (especially stuff on the free porn tube channels) is European? I see a lot of porn from Germany, Eastern Europe, and even the UK on those....
                          The ones I've seen sound like they're from Jersey...
                          My porn experience is not extensive though...
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                            #118
                            Re: Parenting Debate: To Snip or no?

                            Maybe it could also be the foreign influence....like more porn from outside of the world is getting more popular, and most of the world doesn't really do circumcision.
                            I don't know though lol.

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                              #119
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                              Trouble with the ladies???? Have I missed something?
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                                #120
                                Re: Parenting Debate: To Snip or no?

                                I am against infant circumcision. I have been banned from forums before for expounding on my opinion, so I will just leave it at that.
                                Children love and want to be loved and they very much prefer the joy of accomplishment to the triumph of hateful failure. Do not mistake a child for his symptom.
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