Re: What are your core beliefs?
It depends on what you believe compassion means. As per the dictionary, its a "sympathetic consciousness of others' distress together with a desire to alleviate it". Lets go with that (simplistic thought it might be)--I can be sympathetic to how someone else feels, I might wish that they didn't feel that way, but that doesn't necessarily mean that getting rid of the situation for them is the best way to "fix" them. Everyone is worthy of trying to understand where they are coming from and what circumstances they are in--but that doesn't mean that one has to agree with them, or forgive them (if its a personal thing), or tolerate their behavior. Some people are easier to have compassion for than others.
I think I sort of addressed this in my replay to Medusa...but compassion isn't about fixing someone, its about understanding where they are coming from. Hopefully with an eye to helping them help themselves, but also with a realization that you can't actually take up another's problems for them.
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