My son and I live in a rough area. The kids round here respond to absolutely everything with violence. Almost every time my son goes out to play, something awful happens - last night he got beaten up and our windows were egged by a boy who was angry that my son had refused to go shoplifting with him!
I didn't grow up in a place like this and have no idea how to handle it. My son is autistic and finds it all equally confusing. Calling the police doesn't help - these kids are under the age of criminal responsibility. I tried it last year when another boy beat up my son with a plank of wood. It did no good, and now I have a reputation for calling the police, which in itself has caused my son more trouble. Talking to their parents does no good either, they don't see a problem, having grown up in the same way.
I'm beginning to dread waking up each morning, wondering what's going to happen today. I don't want to stop my son going out to play, he's almost a teenager and I can't shield him forever. I can't afford to move house and part of me wouldn't want to even if I could because in many ways my son is settled and does have some good friends.
Thank you for reading, if you made it this far. Mostly I think I just needed to share with someone. But if any one has any good ideas about what to do (magical or otherwise) I'd love to hear them.
I didn't grow up in a place like this and have no idea how to handle it. My son is autistic and finds it all equally confusing. Calling the police doesn't help - these kids are under the age of criminal responsibility. I tried it last year when another boy beat up my son with a plank of wood. It did no good, and now I have a reputation for calling the police, which in itself has caused my son more trouble. Talking to their parents does no good either, they don't see a problem, having grown up in the same way.
I'm beginning to dread waking up each morning, wondering what's going to happen today. I don't want to stop my son going out to play, he's almost a teenager and I can't shield him forever. I can't afford to move house and part of me wouldn't want to even if I could because in many ways my son is settled and does have some good friends.
Thank you for reading, if you made it this far. Mostly I think I just needed to share with someone. But if any one has any good ideas about what to do (magical or otherwise) I'd love to hear them.
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