Re: dog tips?
I am not sure if I have the right to be bluntly honest with you ... However.
I bolded the important bits I am going to address. Dogs can be a lot of time and work as compared to cats. Some aren't! GSD and GSD mixes are, however. They require a lot of time. A lot of work. GSD's especially need an exceptional amount of training time as they are HIGHLY protective and territorial. Perhaps not so much as a pup, but definitely as they get older. They WILL bite without warning what they perceive as a threat to home or person if they are not socialized and trained appropriately. Cats may or may not be iffy things as the puppy grows older, even if they are brought up with one. Depends highly on the individual dog on how high their prey drive actually is. I've known some to adore cats in general. Some adore only "their" cat. Some are fine as a puppy but lunge and attack as they grow older. It depends. And the only way you will be able to work with that is by having TIME to spend with the puppy regularly. Socializing, adjusting, training.
Taking on a dog into one's life is not like taking on a fashion accessory that you can show off when it pleases you and put away when it is inconvenient. Not saying that you think this, but I see it often in other people. When bringing a dog into a partnered relationship, BOTH partners need to be ok with it. BOTH need to share in the responsibilities. For someone to insist upon keeping the puppy when they themselves are not going to be around to handle care is, frankly, sliding into the realm of selfishness. And adding in the factor of a roommate brings in a whole new level of responsibility and complication.
Currently, your and your partner's life situation, as you have described it, is not conducive to raising a well adjusted dog, no less a GSD breed. It just isn't.
If your partner has their heart set on a dog, once you both have a bit more time available, consider adopting an adult dog (4+ years) that is already socialized and trained.
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I just read your other post on "What are you thinking right now" and I feel really bad about posting. And I really want to emphasize that I do not intend to make you feel bad. Not having a good situation for a puppy right now does not make you a bad person, nor should you feel bad about it. Not at all!
You are very good people ... for asking for tips, and discussing whether or not it is the right thing. You should not feel like a bag of dicks.
And honestly, only YOU know your situation. I can only give my opinion based upon what I perceive as I read. Don't take me for gospel.
Originally posted by volcaniclastic
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I am not sure if I have the right to be bluntly honest with you ... However.
I bolded the important bits I am going to address. Dogs can be a lot of time and work as compared to cats. Some aren't! GSD and GSD mixes are, however. They require a lot of time. A lot of work. GSD's especially need an exceptional amount of training time as they are HIGHLY protective and territorial. Perhaps not so much as a pup, but definitely as they get older. They WILL bite without warning what they perceive as a threat to home or person if they are not socialized and trained appropriately. Cats may or may not be iffy things as the puppy grows older, even if they are brought up with one. Depends highly on the individual dog on how high their prey drive actually is. I've known some to adore cats in general. Some adore only "their" cat. Some are fine as a puppy but lunge and attack as they grow older. It depends. And the only way you will be able to work with that is by having TIME to spend with the puppy regularly. Socializing, adjusting, training.
Taking on a dog into one's life is not like taking on a fashion accessory that you can show off when it pleases you and put away when it is inconvenient. Not saying that you think this, but I see it often in other people. When bringing a dog into a partnered relationship, BOTH partners need to be ok with it. BOTH need to share in the responsibilities. For someone to insist upon keeping the puppy when they themselves are not going to be around to handle care is, frankly, sliding into the realm of selfishness. And adding in the factor of a roommate brings in a whole new level of responsibility and complication.
Currently, your and your partner's life situation, as you have described it, is not conducive to raising a well adjusted dog, no less a GSD breed. It just isn't.
If your partner has their heart set on a dog, once you both have a bit more time available, consider adopting an adult dog (4+ years) that is already socialized and trained.
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I just read your other post on "What are you thinking right now" and I feel really bad about posting. And I really want to emphasize that I do not intend to make you feel bad. Not having a good situation for a puppy right now does not make you a bad person, nor should you feel bad about it. Not at all!
You are very good people ... for asking for tips, and discussing whether or not it is the right thing. You should not feel like a bag of dicks.
And honestly, only YOU know your situation. I can only give my opinion based upon what I perceive as I read. Don't take me for gospel.
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