Re: Now we are in the deep end of the pool.
You don't.
There are people that can't be reasoned with. They can't be reasoned with because they don't believe in compromise, or in acceptance. (ETA: And some of them believe that they are so right that they will kill anyone that not just opposes them, but even disagrees with them, without any attempt at discernment or mercy. They have no compassion for anyone that is not like them--and none even for people that are like them and dare to disagree with them.)
If they aren't doing harm, let them go*. When they are, mitigate the harm.
Choice 3 is the acceptance that if life is worth giving, worth creating, and worth saving, then sometimes it is necessary to take it away. Give life with humility, take it with compassion.
Its about trying to navigate the path of least harm. Sometimes you are wrong. Sometimes mistakes are made and accidents happen. And yeah, sometimes people resent you. That is part of life. And it is part of the consequences we accept when we make those very hard decisions.
*ETA: There are many people in this world that can't be reasoned with, beyond groups like ISIL--fundamentalists and zealots of just about any ideology we've managed to dream up. Often these people don't cause pervasive harm--they live in insular groups or keep their opinions relatively low key--relatively speaking, they are harmless and can be left to their own devices (though perhaps watched in case they escalate) More often they do localized harm--quiverfull families, Fundamentalist Mormons, etc....and we have laws that can (and do) deal with the greater abuses people like this cause.
Originally posted by loststarshine
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You don't.
There are people that can't be reasoned with. They can't be reasoned with because they don't believe in compromise, or in acceptance. (ETA: And some of them believe that they are so right that they will kill anyone that not just opposes them, but even disagrees with them, without any attempt at discernment or mercy. They have no compassion for anyone that is not like them--and none even for people that are like them and dare to disagree with them.)
If they aren't doing harm, let them go*. When they are, mitigate the harm.
Choice 3 is the acceptance that if life is worth giving, worth creating, and worth saving, then sometimes it is necessary to take it away. Give life with humility, take it with compassion.
Its about trying to navigate the path of least harm. Sometimes you are wrong. Sometimes mistakes are made and accidents happen. And yeah, sometimes people resent you. That is part of life. And it is part of the consequences we accept when we make those very hard decisions.
*ETA: There are many people in this world that can't be reasoned with, beyond groups like ISIL--fundamentalists and zealots of just about any ideology we've managed to dream up. Often these people don't cause pervasive harm--they live in insular groups or keep their opinions relatively low key--relatively speaking, they are harmless and can be left to their own devices (though perhaps watched in case they escalate) More often they do localized harm--quiverfull families, Fundamentalist Mormons, etc....and we have laws that can (and do) deal with the greater abuses people like this cause.
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