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Are you holding on to something that you need to let go of?
A hoodie that I've had through all my international moves that is full of holes and is now thinner than my t-shirts. I'm pretty sure there was a time when it was fluffy.
Are you holding on to something that you need to let go of?
The idea that I need sex to have a healthy, intimate, romantic relationship. Truth is, my partners need sex for that. I'm perfectly happy without. But then my happiness depends on their happiness to an extent so... big bad loop.
We are what we are. Nothing more, nothing less. There is good and evil among every kind of people. It's the evil among us who rule now. -Anne Bishop, Daughter of the Blood
I wondered if he could ever understand that it was a blessing, not a sin, to be graced with more than one love.
It could be complicated; of course it could be complicated. And it opened one up to the possibility of more pain and loss.
Still, it was a blessing I would never relinquish. Love, genuine love, was always a cause for joy.
-Jacqueline Carey, Naamah's Curse
Are you holding on to something that you need to let go of?
Funny you should ask. I realised today that I was affected by a comment made online about 5 years ago (not on PF I hasten to add), that has affected me more deeply than I ever realised. I'm thinking of posting about it in the adult section sometime because it's a bit personal. It is DEFINITELY time I let go of my hang-ups over a stupid comment, by someone who didn't know me or my circumstances, and was just out to be nasty to anyone they saw as an easy target...
夕方に急なにわか雨は「夕立」と呼ばれるなら、なぜ朝ににわか雨は「朝立ち」と呼ばれないの? ^^If a sudden rain shower in the evening is referred to as an 'evening stand', then why isn't a shower in the morning called 'morning stand'?
Are you holding on to something that you need to let go of?
Yea. Anger towards my mother for not accepting me for me. Nothing to do about it, no use in caring what she thinks. But it's hard to let that go.
You remind me of the babe
What babe?
The babe with the power
What power?
The Power of voodoo
Who do?
You do!
Do what?
Remind me of the babe! Army of Darkness: Guardians of the Chat
Are you holding on to something that you need to let go of?
Too much stuff.
Everyone else has all this emotional stuff, I feel shallow...but mine is physical stuff. Its the time of year where we need to purge the accumulated stuff and take it to one of the donation thrift stores.
I said and did some careless things a few years back and ended up alienating myself from the local pagan scene. I still have friends there, but I know I'll also rub shoulders with the people I fell out with and they make me feel really uncomfortable. They're not blameness, especially as to make things worse, there have been things said about me that aren't true by my ex's girlfriend who had mental health problems and was sorta harassing me, texting me constantly with things like 'you can have him back.. he still loves you.. I'll never be as good as you...' when I was the one who left HIM. I ended up being pretty nasty to both of them to make them go away. I've no idea what she's said about me so can't defend myself against the rumours. I'm not blameless either though. I stopped speaking to some friends over something they did while drunk, and stupidly told others what they'd done, when what I should have done was spoken to them about how they'd made me feel.
Lessons learnt, but I'm so sad things had to end like this, with half the pagan scene thinking I'm a she-devil.
夕方に急なにわか雨は「夕立」と呼ばれるなら、なぜ朝ににわか雨は「朝立ち」と呼ばれないの? ^^If a sudden rain shower in the evening is referred to as an 'evening stand', then why isn't a shower in the morning called 'morning stand'?
I think I am more embarrassed by behavior then anything. I am quite prideful and knowing I let someone play me like a fool always gets to me but I also learned a lot about myself. So I guess I'll take my shame with my lesson learned.
"If you want to know what a man is like, take a good look at how he treats his inferiors, not his equals." -- Sirius Black
"Time is an illusion, lunch time doubly so."-- Ford Prefect
Have you ever pranked called someone or answered a prank call?
Never did prank calls. When I was a kid my classmates liked teasing me. Until my mom answered the phone sounding quite strict and saying "police, how may I help you?". Gave them a scare.
You remind me of the babe
What babe?
The babe with the power
What power?
The Power of voodoo
Who do?
You do!
Do what?
Remind me of the babe! Army of Darkness: Guardians of the Chat
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