Re: Sex Ritual -- the Controversy!
I think this is a great way to go about it. Self selecting. Everyone knows what the deal is and they can opt in or out.
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I think it's a given that no matter what the nature of our beliefs and rituals some people won't like it, and will choose to not join or not stay in the group. That should never be a reason to not follow the tenants of the faith.
People are welcome to form their own group that believes and worships as they do. If the group from the outset has designated itself as ecclectic and inclusive then those things usually go up for vote or group consent.
I would not feel safe or comfortable participating in a group sexual ritual if it involved me being physically intimate with someone other than my given partner.
Our own relationship vows, and my culture would leave me with consequences that would outweigh my perceived benefit from participating. I have engaged in one on one sex rituals honoring holy days etc, and it's been awesome.
I do know of a group that uses nude and sexual rituals. From what I have seen and heard it's more about the head warlock having his jollies with the young female recruits.
In no way do I think that is the nature or intent of most nude/sex rituals, but yeah...these things can go bad. Life is risky.
Originally posted by Orecha
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I think it's a given that no matter what the nature of our beliefs and rituals some people won't like it, and will choose to not join or not stay in the group. That should never be a reason to not follow the tenants of the faith.
People are welcome to form their own group that believes and worships as they do. If the group from the outset has designated itself as ecclectic and inclusive then those things usually go up for vote or group consent.
I would not feel safe or comfortable participating in a group sexual ritual if it involved me being physically intimate with someone other than my given partner.
Our own relationship vows, and my culture would leave me with consequences that would outweigh my perceived benefit from participating. I have engaged in one on one sex rituals honoring holy days etc, and it's been awesome.
I do know of a group that uses nude and sexual rituals. From what I have seen and heard it's more about the head warlock having his jollies with the young female recruits.
In no way do I think that is the nature or intent of most nude/sex rituals, but yeah...these things can go bad. Life is risky.
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