Re: Being a Godly Wife. Your thoughts?
It may not go over well with some, but if one wants a weak and submissive woman, then a female adherent to one of the major religions is probably where they'll look first. Fear and shame are incredible motivators for some people. Especially when they are raised in such a system. I was raised Catholic. There wasn't a whole lot of talk about God's love, but there was plenty talk of his wrath if you didn't toe the line. And anytime you did something you weren't supposed to, and got unsavory results, then we were told God was 'punishing' us for not listening to our parents.
I remember one time, I was probably about 4 or 5 and I wanted to come down and help my mother with the laundry downstairs. For some reason she told me to stay upstairs as I was about halfway down the staircase. I meant to comply, but I was wearing socks, and one of my socks slipped and I fell down the stairs instead. Afterwards I was told that it was 'God's Punishment' for not listening.
Not directly related to the OP of course, but fear, shame, and manipulation are used unconsciously to control others. Most of the time, not even realizing that they're doing it. It's like a disease passed from one generation to the next who does things just because their own parents did the same thing. So on and so forth, rarely ever questioning why. That pretty much sums up Fundamentalism in a nutshell.
It may not go over well with some, but if one wants a weak and submissive woman, then a female adherent to one of the major religions is probably where they'll look first. Fear and shame are incredible motivators for some people. Especially when they are raised in such a system. I was raised Catholic. There wasn't a whole lot of talk about God's love, but there was plenty talk of his wrath if you didn't toe the line. And anytime you did something you weren't supposed to, and got unsavory results, then we were told God was 'punishing' us for not listening to our parents.
I remember one time, I was probably about 4 or 5 and I wanted to come down and help my mother with the laundry downstairs. For some reason she told me to stay upstairs as I was about halfway down the staircase. I meant to comply, but I was wearing socks, and one of my socks slipped and I fell down the stairs instead. Afterwards I was told that it was 'God's Punishment' for not listening.
Not directly related to the OP of course, but fear, shame, and manipulation are used unconsciously to control others. Most of the time, not even realizing that they're doing it. It's like a disease passed from one generation to the next who does things just because their own parents did the same thing. So on and so forth, rarely ever questioning why. That pretty much sums up Fundamentalism in a nutshell.
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